Monday 2 June 2014

Retired? Know how to 'be happy' always

After learning sustainability (Dharma) in the first stage and earning wealth (Artha) in the second stage, the third stage is to fulfill all desires (Kama) and live a heavenly life. It is through activity with a spirit of sacrifice (Yagna: Juhuyat swarga kaamah). The skilled are the best among the esteemed. Knowledge is the best wealth. Health is the best a person can gain from effort. Contentment is the best among pleasures. Retirement should not make any difference because the aim is to achieve the potential. A person realises his potential by doing what he likes to do best and from the passion for excellence. It includes the following:

    Develop joint family: A child learns to cooperate at home. Children and the parents are not financially dependent on each other. Parents should provide security to their married children. Children should give emotional support. Parents seek esteem from the extended family. They create assets.

Elders must lead with wisdom. Bhagavad Gita says, ‘You shall prosper through yagna and it shall fulfill all your desires. Workers must cooperate with  the knowledgeable. Then both benefit from the joint project'. Atharva Veda states, 'Gods in heaven neither refuse to cooperate nor are they jealous of each other. Let there be similar wisdom in your house'. According to Chanakya Neeti, 'Wise elders must set the example by practice. Others can learn from their practical wisdom’.

Satisfy higher level needs, such as for aesthetics, esteem and self-actualisation. Aesthetics gives heavenly happiness. Esteem comes from a virtuous act which benefits the society. Satisfaction of desire (Kamah) must increase virtue and wealth. According to  Sankara Bhashya on Bhagavad Gita, 'Desires are to get the favourable results of all activities – specified in the Veda and Vedanta. Prevention of undesirable activities sustains society. Elderly persons must work to sustain mankind (Loka Samgrahah)'. If a child does not follow, it means that the teachers (and parents) do not know or do not follow what they teach. Merit (Punya) can be acquired by helping others with knowledge and wealth acquired in the second stage. It is the opposite of selfishness (Papam). Example: ‘Laughing Buddha’.

False knowledge, the root cause of unhappiness, is prevented by developing intuitive true knowledge. Scriptures define a sage as a thinker who develops intuitive true knowledge, is in full control of his speech and enjoys comfort but is not attached to it. He feels a discomfort but his mind is not disturbed by it.  

A person in the third stage of life has already brought up his children through sacrifice and achieved success. He is a natural instructor (Guru) to educate other children. Experience based knowledge commands respect. 

Everybody is in the environment. Yet he alters the environment without showing concern for others. He forgets that any change of others affects him because of his relation with them. In Vedic era, a person in the third stage of life created a garden (Nandanika) or a grove fit for meditation (Tapovana). Working in a garden or with Nature provides a similar experience.

Lifetime achievement, aesthetics and contentment are the measures of success in the third stage of life. Wealth is for enjoying or giving. Otherwise it is lost’. If people around cannot appreciate, wealth gives no esteem. 

According to Sankara Bhasya on Bhagavad Gita, ‘Sense organs are controlled to prevent bad inputs and activities. Peace (Samah) is from control of thoughts relating to inputs by senses to develop contentment. It is from the feeling that resources are enough to meet the needs (Mana Tustih)’.  Contentment (Vishayanandah) is from satisfaction of a long-term need.

Fourth Stage Is to Enjoy Peace (Sat-Cit-Anandah)

The last stage is when a person has outgrown (Moksha) from desires by fulfilling all his desires in the third stage of life. Bhgavad Gita refers to this condition in Samksha Yoga and Karmasanyasa Yoga. Non-possessiveness and study of Vedanta in the third stage of life helps to gain peace and reduce the fear of death in the fourth stage. In Chapter 18 on Moksha Yoga, Bhagavad Gita outlines a method to develop peace. 



Sunday 1 June 2014

Health is lost due to excessive,wrong or absence of behaviour !

Health is the condition in which the natural healing ability of the body and the mind is maintained. Aging is progressive deterioration of the ability to heal. Faster deterioration occurs due to a disease. It is due to excessive, wrong or absence of inputs and outputs.

Inputs must be according to the time of the day and the season because the weather may be hot, cold or rainy. One tends to justify a wrong action (Mithyachar) due to excessive, false or lack of perception. According to Charaka Samhita, ‘Health is impaired due to excess (Ati), wrong (Mithya) or absence (Anachara) of inputs from the combination of time, mind and senses’. Disease follows. Excess, false or lack of light (colour), sound, smell, taste or touch is the most common cause of a disease. 

A person with sedentary lifestyle performs more mental activities which develop stress. Exercise can take out the stress but he performs little physical activities. Many other persons avoid thinking with an open mind because it exercises the mind. Using the brain frequently slows down aging. 

Improper Food Habit

Everyone has to eat a wide variety of food and yet not overeat. But by habit, many persons consume same type of food on almost all days. Only the form of food and the type of cooking vary.  This means excess of some food items and less of others over weeks or months. Deficiency of fibre, antioxidants, iron, folic acid, vitamin C, calcium, riboflavin, vitamin A and trace minerals is common. A stressed person tends to overeat for satisfaction. The less a person eats, but in four times a day, the longer he lives. 

Food should be nutritious and tasty. When a person is satisfied with the food, he does not overeat. Input of energy should equal the output including the working of internal organs. Even for persons with sedentary habits, at least 40 per cent of input energy should be used for doing external work. The aged, the obese and those with sedentary habits should consume nutritious but low energy foods. 

Food is the best medicine. Supplements like vitamins and minerals are of doubtful value. This is because the body’s requirements may not match the formulation. Further, the body requires many unknown vitamins and minerals known as phytochemicals. Seasonal fruits and vegetables provide the vitamins and minerals. The body absorbs these better than from concentrated forms of tablets or liquids. A person has to take at least 20 and preferably 30 biologically different types of food every week. It is preferable that almost all types are from plants. Fat should come from whole foods such as nuts, seeds and beans than from liquid oils. Food should be tasty. Enjoying the food ensures adequate secretion of juices and chewing of food for proper digestion. Seventy-five per cent of the taste comes from smell. This becomes evident when a person suffering from cold does not enjoy the taste due to the blocked nose. A happy mood helps digestion. Hence is the saying, ‘The family that eats together stays together.’ 

Food must include fibres, fruits, anti-oxidants, vitamins and micro-nutrition. Apart from these, elderly persons require more protein to compensate for decrease due to aging. Food supplements which delay aging and herbal medicines are required for the aged. 

Body mass index (BMI) indicates the obesity or otherwise of a person. It is equal to the weight of a person divided by square of his height in metres. For a healthy adult the limit is 18.5 to 25. The average is 21 to 23. The gain in weight during the lifetime after the teens should be limited to 5 kilograms. Limiting the consumption of high energy density foods, such as fast foods, keeps body mass index within limits. Fat and water content determine the energy density of a food. Eating low energy density foods and drinking enough water every day help. An adult has to drink liquid of 1500 ml plus 15 ml per kilogram of weight in excess of 50 Kilograms. Soft drinks are rich in free sugar, give high instant energy and reduce appetite soon after. The limit of circumference of waist is 102 centimetres for man and 88 centimetres for woman. 

Persons with Body Mass Index more than 25 are obese. The strain of a person with excess weight is similar to a person carrying always a weight equal to the excess weight. So the obese person gets tired. He is slow to act. He feels hungry and thirsty more often. It is essential that he should neither overeat nor starve. Tasty and nutritious diet with high fibre content but low energy is essential. Drinking of water should not be less than the norm. 

According to Bhagavad Gita,‘A person with right input, enjoyment, effort, perception and dream (sleep) achieves Yoga. It removes unhappiness’.


Saturday 31 May 2014

Yoga is widely misunderstood ! Yoga is synergy through restraint

Yoga is widely understood and misunderstood. Spiritual leaders say that Yoga is union of self (Atman) with Almighty (Paramatman). Many persons say that Yoga is breath-control (Pranayama) in appropriate postures (Asana). But Yoga is much more than that. Bhagavad Gita says that Yoga is the skill to achieve  success (Yogah karmasu kausalam) and should be followed by Yoga for happiness (Samatwam Yoga ucyate). 

Confucius said, “A gentleman always puts his ideas into action before expressing them ………… If one is able to acquire new knowledge by reviewing old knowledge, he is qualified to be a tutor." I applied Yoga for success and reached the top position as an engineer. Since then, I have been practising Yoga for happiness. 

  Yoga is synergy from union and restraint. The word Yoga comes from union (Junjate iti Yogah). It develops synergy. Following are some of the unions cited:
·       Synergy (Yoga) of mind and body
·       Synergy of a team
·       Union of male (Pure Consciousness / Purusha) and female (Power of Pure Consciousness / Sakti / Prakriti)   principles. A similar principle is of Yin and Yang in Taoism practised in China.
·       Union of Almighty (Purusha) with Nature (Prakriti)

Yoga Sutra by Patanjali states, 'Yoga is control of thoughts'. It is achieved in three stages: empathy (Yama), ‘Rules of conduct (Niyama)’ and control of mind (Samyama). Control is inherent in all three stages. The eight-component (Astanga) Yoga by Patanjali consists of the following: Empathy (Yama), 'Rules of conduct' (Niyama), comfortable posture (Asana), breath-control (Pranayama), non-attachment (Pratyahara), Concentration of mind (Dharana), meditation (Dhyana) and development of intuitive true knowledge (Samadhi). Bhagavad Gita outlines different forms of Yoga prevailing at that time. It prefers action (Pravritti) without attachment to results (Karmaphala Tyaga). It leads to synergy through restraint to achieve success. Then follows Yoga for peace (Nivritti) through true knowledge (Samkhya Yoga) or meditation on Almighty according to Vedanta. 

Yoga is synergy through restraint

Friday 30 May 2014

Yoga to "be happy" always

Friends !

Just like you, I was searching for the aim of life. I came to the conclusion: To 'be happy' always. According to Bhagavad Gita, it is through 'Yoga for success' in the first part of life and 'Yoga for happiness' later. Unhappiness is due to self (Adhyatmik), others (Adhibhautikand Nature (Adhidaivik). Isavasya upanishad says, 'Life is to enjoy everything but without attachment'. So I say, "How can I allow anybody or anything to affect my mood?" Happiness is through predominance of sustainability (Dharma), wealth (Artha), success (Kama) and peace (Moksha) respectively in successive four stages of life. 

In its original condition, mind is always happy - just like a baby. Unhappiness is due to the false knowledge (Avidya) which we go on acquiring. It is by considering short-term pleasure as happiness; improper as proper and self as body and mind instead of Pure Consciousness. By nature, senses reach out to objects and the mind follows them. Result is Child ego (Tamas), pleasure and pain. Such a person is heathen (Asura).  The habit can be prevented through empathy (Yama), 'Rules of conduct' (Niyama) and intuitive true knowledge through meditation (Samayama). The three together constitute Yoga. It leads to 'heavenly life (Deva) - to be happy' always. It comes from true perception (Pratyakshya), correct inference (Anumana) and knowledge from scriptures  that have stood the test of time (Agama).

The word wealth comes from weal, that is, goodness. Activity resulting from Parent ego (Rajas) alone creates wealth. It reduces Child ego to the minimum. True knowledge through Adult ego (Sattwa) reduces Child ego and Parent ego to minimum. It comes by meditating on Nature to minimise ego. Seeing unity in diversity develops bliss. It comes by developing Pure Consciousness (Purusha) existing at the core of every individual. It is Almighty (Iswar) because it has power to reveal everything through contact but remains unattached even after contact. He is unaffected by results of activities. Peace comes from meditation on Almighty as Ideal and developing Pure Consciousness.

My book on 'Art of Living Successfully' shows how to 'be happy' always. Additional details about it are on the website www.buildbestvalue.com.